No pain....no gain

I dont know why all the things happen altogether. When people begin to love you they all will love you, when people begin to hate you they all begin to hate you, when people begin to leave you they all leave you. Similarily when closed ones begin to misunderstand you, all of them begin to misunderstand you. Its strange really strange people you think know you very well surprise you by not knowing the very basic of you. They leave you over trivial things. You kept on wondering what happened but you dont get the clue. Then when you really work hard to analyse what really has happened then you came to know that actually the cancer was spreading a long time ago. You think that once the relatioship the companionship is made its done. But you forget that its not done. Each day each moment it requires the same effort the same nourishment that a newly build partnership requires. You cant just let it go on the assumption that it has been fed good in the past so it can survive without any feed. So what happens is that there comes a time when the past storage is used and just hollow relationships remain which break at anytime.
Its necessary to keep on feeding your relationships. Or you will be hurt like me in the end.
There is no comfort in this world....either you dare to live alone or you have to go through the hard work of keeping up everything you love like and need in life.