No pain....no gain
I dont know why all the things happen altogether. When people begin to love you they all will love you, when people begin to hate you they all begin to hate you, when people begin to leave you they all leave you. Similarily when closed ones begin to misunderstand you, all of them begin to misunderstand you. Its strange really strange people you think know you very well surprise you by not knowing the very basic of you. They leave you over trivial things. You kept on wondering what happened but you dont get the clue. Then when you really work hard to analyse what really has happened then you came to know that actually the cancer was spreading a long time ago. You think that once the relatioship the companionship is made its done. But you forget that its not done. Each day each moment it requires the same effort the same nourishment that a newly build partnership requires. You cant just let it go on the assumption that it has been fed good in the past so it can survive without any feed. So what happens is that there comes a time when the past storage is used and just hollow relationships remain which break at anytime.
Its necessary to keep on feeding your relationships. Or you will be hurt like me in the end.
There is no comfort in this world....either you dare to live alone or you have to go through the hard work of keeping up everything you love like and need in life.
Its necessary to keep on feeding your relationships. Or you will be hurt like me in the end.
There is no comfort in this world....either you dare to live alone or you have to go through the hard work of keeping up everything you love like and need in life.
posted by Lilac at
11:56 AM
3 Comments:
Its quite strange after reading that u need your relation to b build on the same foundations u laid earlier, in this dramatic world things changes more rapidly than ur thinking and by the way have u ever tried to do reverse thinking while keeping you on the other end of mirror why people surprize u as if they even dont know u? this is the beauty of keeping a relation it demands something in every moment of its life and what if this will not happen may b u will be writing why people are not misunderstanding you
and if u made a companion ship r u not ready to nourish it every day? even plant needs water every day to nourish just like human needs food so in this way relationship companion ship or partnership all need care, love, happiness everyday to make them stronger cancer starts creating its space whn all of these are left behind and we start thinking everything is going fine and it hurts badly in the end and we at that time we think what is the fault.
What I feel whatever life u r having jus make it comfortable by keeping ur relationship on top priority in your daily life in this way it will nourish strongly, hurdles are part of life and take them only as a change but just stop watching them thru magnifying glass when u have some beautiful form of love around you.
No its not true.
For you may be the things are small and of little importance but for other person that may be damaging.
All the things never happen altogether. Every thing has its own input and time to happen.
The problem is we become careless for those who love us, who care us, who are really concerned. We think they will not mind anything we do but this can damage the souls.
Feeding a relationship is not appropriate because a true relationship does not require any feed what it requires is the only priority and the same importance.
If a person keep you all the time in thoughts, feel you all the time, virtually with you all the time if that person is ignored for no reason or intentionaly kept at low priority & importance, the relationship may not be long lasting.
All the relationships requireed to be built on equality.
And you are true if there is no pain there would be no gain as well. Pain should always be felt.
Sincerely yours;
For both of the comments:
what you guys said is easy...love those who love you...care those who care for you....its easy and everyone believe me everyone can do that....but life offers you a little more complicated algebra than that..
i used to care for everyone...be there for everyone ..by everyone i mean my loved ones...people i respect or care about....people shared with me...asked or me..then demands increased...more time was required to be with everyone to erase the sorrows to sympathize and to care....i got tired and tried to rest for some moments and then i came to know that i am not even spared for some moments...i have never been understood...my love my care was questioned..i was not forgiven...
then there is another problem....you carefor two people and those two people hate each other and wants you to do the same...how cud you do that..
so how far you will keep on feeding...how far you'll keep on submitting yourself to others' demands... there came a dangerous stage then...you begin to become cold...you take care of people as per your previous nature and you kick them off as per your current nature then people get hurt..you get hurt..
everyone is with you for their own means even if its love...there is nothing like unconditional....still dont know why i have always tried to give this thing unconditional and people are not happy even with that...so you have to be in a constant pain you have to eliminate your whole existance and then may be you get something..
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